Patience. A word we all know. A word that we’ve been told countless times, “Patience is a virtue”. Patience. But are we really that great at being patient people? I know that I like to think that most of the time I am. But I definitely know as soon as I’m in a situation where I want the answer or I want the result NOW, I am no longer patient.
The biggest reason this word resonates with me today, is because of the dog training I’ve been doing. As I mentioned in a previous post, when teaching a new trick or a new command, you must patiently wait for the dog to figure it out. If you have a treat, the dog will want the treat and want to do what is necessary to get the treat. If you truly have the respect of your dog, the dog will try to do what it takes to please you. All you have to be is patient.
Training dogs has been a touch-and-go process. Some things are improving daily, and some things seem a little inconsistent. Especially, when my one dog, Dwight, the eldest at 3 years and the father to the puppies, is probably the most stubborn. Yesterday, I simply tried to get him to repeat a new command, “Down”, which he completed twice the day before. How long did I wait? I think around… 7 minutes. Seriously… patience.
Now this is something that was not always natural to me. I’ve gone through a lot of life changes since the day I was born, so change was something I had no choice but to adapt to. And with change ALWAYS comes a little extra patience. Since I’m the eldest of four children in our family, 15 years between me and the youngest, I had the opportunity to practice A LOT of patience with my siblings. For quite awhile, my step-dad worked away from home, which also meant that I became another parent in the family. And I’m sure most of you know, with parenting, comes a LOT of patience.
And of course, I cannot credit enough to my career as a teacher. I think it’s incredibly difficult for someone to try your patience more than a student who doesn’t care, a student who doesn’t even want to be where his parents are making him be. That’s a true test of patience. As much as teachers are known to have “eyes” on the back of their heads, sometimes I wonder if students also have extra eyes to know just when to catch a teacher off-guard. I love my students, and I love being a teacher. But each and every day that I’m at school, I remind myself to stay in check, and be patient.
Now I looked up what the Bible had to say about patience, and it’s pretty amazing.
Proverbs 25:15 struck me strongly. It says:
Through patience a ruler can be persuaded, and a gentle tongue can break a bone.
Wow… that is pretty incredible! Patience has enough strength and power to persuade the most un-persuadable. Just like patience can teach a dog to do a trick and even figure it out on its own. Just by you being patient! Just like a stubborn student or child, sometimes all it takes is patience and the learning process will happen, the wrongs can be corrected, and things can be solved. All with the use of patience!
Colossians 3:12 says:
Therefore, as God’s chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience.
Wow. God even told us to be clothed in patience. It’s His instructions that we are patient people. Are we the stubborn children not listening to our Father?
And 1 Timothy 1:16 says:
But for that very reason I was shown mercy so that in me, the worst of sinners, Christ Jesus might display his immense patience as an example for those who would believe in him and receive eternal life.
Not just patience this time, but immense patience. Patience like nothing we’ve ever known was displayed in Christ Jesus for us to take example from.
Now believe me, I know it’s easier said than done, most things are. But just make a conscious effort everyday to try and practice patience. The more you practice, the easier it becomes. When you feel yourself getting angry or heated up about something, take a minute, turn around, take a deep breath, calm yourself down, and try again. Remember the power in patience and the good that it can do in so may situations. You may never be perfect, nor should you ever expect yourself to be. You are human, but what matters is that you try. You can do it, I believe in you!